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« on: April 26, 2008, 09:20:25 PM »

i dreamt oh having gay sex with a very close friend of mine, we were doing it in a toilet and the toilet has many big holes like windows and people can see through, then after that we realize that there is a group of VIPs walking in to visit the place, then there was a commotion and we tried hiding, after that we realize that a lot of people are coming in to take a look, and we saw some familiar faces, i was angry, then i turn on the hose and switch it to hot water and spray them. but it didn't bother them, then we faster change back to our clothes, and i saw my friend holding on to my pda phone, and later i realized that there is a message, from my friend saying something like " i've hated you from the beginning and stuff like that." i receive lots of sms from friends that i recognized and they say things like " i could not believe u do such a thing" and some very sarcastic like, " isn't it fun in the toilet".

after that i tried to talk things out with that friend of mine, and we started talking, as he is my major project mate in school. then i woke up.





please tell me what those this dream really means! i am really affected by it. thanks!
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« Reply #1 on: April 27, 2008, 03:17:30 PM »

Sex - sexual dreams are not always about actual sex.
Having sex in a dream may be a straightforward expression of sexual desire. It may be your libido's way of telling you that it's been too long since you have had sex. It may indicate repressed sexual desires and your needs for physical and emotional love.
Alternatively, it may represent the finding of your Self through opening yourself.  A merging of energies, aspects or qualities within yourself, (a psychological completion and the integration of contrasting aspects of the 'Self') Sometimes, they are about how we perceive people and how we think others are perceiving us.

Gay sex (if you are heterosexual) - signifies not necessarily a homosexual desire, but an expression of greater self love and acceptance. Although each of us has some element of homosexuality in us subconsciously, it does not necessarily mean we are gay.
Being played out in a dream could suggest a desire for a father's love (for men)..., or the mother's love (for women). Possibly because that parent wasn't very demonstrative about their love towards you. So you are led to 'crave' the love of another man/woman....as well as curiosity pertaining to homosexuality.
It could be a conflict or anxiety about your own gender or feelings of sexual inadequacy...or your perceived inadequacy in your own gender.
Also, it could represent the act of masturbation. Being ashamed, or feeling guilty, could represent the 'taboo' or ridicule expressed by others about this private act.
Alternately, there could be a quality in the other person you find attractive, and desirable. One that you would find equally attractive in a person of the opposite sex. Aside from the actual 'urge' and stimulation of sex, everyone feels the need to be loved...or feel a connection to another person. The act of sex (making love) is a personal way of expressing and sharing that connection.

Restroom (with a lot of 'holes' like windows) - a restroom is the place for ultimate privacy. Because your dream restroom has large, window-like holes,...and you became angry, suggests you feel you have no privacy, or that your privacy in being intruded upon.

'VIPs' - represents people of importance, or influence, in your life. A teacher, your parents, boss....etc. Because they are coming in to take a look around suggests you feel as though you are being judged, or evaluated somewhere in your life.

Hide/Hiding - suggests the unwillingness to face something, or situation in your waking life. In daily life we hide from things that we don't want to deal with or we hide from danger. Generally, we attempt to hide our own negativity and mistakes. This dream may call for an honest reflection on personal characteristics and an evaluation of how much fear influences our lives and decision-making.

People looking at you - suggests you feel that everyone is watching you, or that you and your actions in your waking life, is 'on display'. Possibly, again, alluding to you feeling a lack of privacy.

Spraying the people and it doesn't affect them - suggests you've expressed your emotions, but you feel like the people you've expressed them to don't care about how you feel.

Hot Water - Water is emotion. Being hot water relates to your feeling angry about something in your waking life. Alternately, it could also suggest you feel guilty, or that you are, or will be, in 'hot water' for something you feel you did, or didn't do.

Put clothes on (covering up) - suggests feeling shy, reclusive, or embarrassed somewhere within your waking life.

Bad phone messages - suggests you feel you are being ridiculed, or talked about behind your back.
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Have you been feeling as though you have no privacy?
Do you feel as though you, your wants, or needs, are being ignored?
Are you angry, or guilty, about something or some situation?
Is there something you are embarrassed about, and feel the need to hide?
Do you feel you are in trouble for something?



I hope this gives you some insight. best wishes!
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