I would say that that the 2 dreams are definately connected. Just different themes of the same problem, or fear.


Castration usually has something to do with emotional trauma, or fear regarding sexual drive. Also, fear of the resposibility that develops with sexual maturity, the difficulty in facing the pain and adjustments that come with the rejection from the opposite sex, and competition for work and wealth. For a man to have his penis cut off, or removed, would suggest feelings of ineffectiveness, and loss of power.

Trying to hide the 'broken-off' penis suggests fear, guilt or shameful feelings about something.

Being too big to hide suggests that some situation or emotion is getting out of control, or becoming difficult to handle.

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Homelessness - suggests that you're feeling insecure, or helpless. You feel unsure of yourself and where you are headed. Being a man, and having a dream of being homeless suggests that you feel incapable of providing for your family or self.

Crowded place - suggests a feeling of being 'crowded-out'. Also represents public opinion, your feelings about people in general, anonymity, and camouflage(being one among many).

Father - symbolizes authority and protection. It suggests that you need to be more self-reliant. That he wants to tell you something suggests you are wanting, or needing some experienced advice on something.

Secret (Fear of being overheard) - represents hidden power, or knowledge. It suggests that something needs to emerge from your subconscious. Fear of being over-heard suggests that you don't want others to know about something, which again, points to a feeling of guilt, or shame.

Sister's fault - laying blame is usually an expression of guilt., or failure, that you are not willing to accept, or face.

You felt it was your fault - suggests that deep down you feel that you are guilty of something, and are wanting to clear the air, or are wanting to take steps toward the truth.
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Have you lost a job recently?
Are you in an extreme financial bind at the moment?
Are not making the money you thought you would, or are unable to afford the extras?(new tv, car, etc)
Did you get someone pregnant, and are afraid you cannot support her or the baby? Or are not 'ready' to be a father?
Did you cheat on your wife or girlfriend?
Did you ask someone out, and were rejected?
Were you publicly embarrassed by someone, possibly female?(Boss, co-worker, teacher, wife, girlfriend, etc)
Has another man accused you of being a wimp, or a wuss. Or worse yet, of being dominated by a female?(Making you feel less like a man.)
Have you had a bout of impotency, or erectile dysfunction of some sort?
Have you physically injured your penis in any way?
Have you done something that you are not very proud of, and the situation is getting out of hand?
Did you lie about something, and are having to tell more lies to cover the original lie?

Hope this helps, good luck!