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« on: March 11, 2008, 05:28:04 PM »

Hi, I'm a 19 year old female student. Been going out with my boyfriend for about 3-4 months and it's just about the longest relationship I've had in about 4 years of dating.

Had a strange dream last night and I can't remember all the details but I'll try my best, it didnt make much sense to me because I thought I was rid of these insecurities cause we are so happy together.

It sorta started off being in this 70's style restaurant in a hotel that had glass doors all along to the outdoor grounds of the hotel, like brown panelled walls and stuff (prob irrelevant but its something I remember all the same lol)

His ex girlfriend who he broke up with late last summer appeared and he announced that she had broken up with her new boyfriend and they were getting back together. I just remember feeling really really sad and thinking why are you leaving me for her after everything you said about how she treated you? And the only thing I can remember about what he said was I have to give this a shot, I love her. Which made me even more sad thinking, but do you not care how I feel at all?

Some of his closest friends (only one of whom I have met yet) were on my side on the whole thing and were looking after me being really upset about it. Then we seemed to be at a wedding, which I think was supposed to be his older brother's wedding and I was there with his friends and he was there with her and she was obvious about them being back together but he didnt even seem to notice I was there.

Ok, so maybe I remember a bit more than I thought but thats prob not all even that accurate, what I remember the most is that feeling of overwhelming sadness thinking "Do you not love me/care how I feel about you?"

Any suggestions on an interpretation?? Huh
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« Reply #1 on: March 11, 2008, 11:44:54 PM »

most probably, you still feel insecure about your current relationship. 3-4months of relationship is quite a short period for overcoming insecurities. (it took me 4 years! hehe.. -that's too long) anyway, all you are dreaming is just what your subconscious mind is thinking. all it takes is time, and patience. but don't get too hooked up to that guy, or else.

here are some helpful tips i have for teens:
answer this: at what age do you wish you get married? do you think at your age now, you will meet the right guy?
there is still a lot of time and there are a lot of guys out there.
one thing i've learned from relationships, you will marry the person who you least expect. (that's true for me, and people i know)
dont rush things. you're still young. i know a girl who is already nearing her 40's who is so paranoid on seeking the "perfect man" for her, until now, she's single!
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« Reply #2 on: March 12, 2008, 10:25:55 AM »

I agree with Arzie. Your dream is about your fear of rejection, and new relationships can cause a bit of anxiety.

Do you often suffer from low self-esteem?
Do you feel unworthy of your boyfriend?....That he's too 'good' for you?
Do you sometimes feel that 'all guys are alike'?(If your last boyfriend broke-up with you, you're afraid this one will too.)

Take a deep breath, hold your head up, and take one day at a time. Enjoy your time with your boyfriend. Show him...and yourself, that you are a 'worthwhile' person.
Good Luck!
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