1. From a non-sexual view, a penis in a woman's dream symbolizes your relationship with your own male characteristics, such as ambition, work capability, aggression, intellect, a desire for respect.

Being 'paralyzed' as well as embarrassment - suggests a lack of confidence, fear of not being able to cope, or hopelessness in a current situation, fear of failure.

Trying to hide the erection suggests you feel ashamed or unsure of showing aggression.
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Have you been wanting to try something with more responsibility, or greater challenge?
Are you dealing with issues of sexual orientation, power, or aggression?
Have you been given a big responsibility, and you fear you'll fail?
Are you in a situation where you are 'competing' with others who are male?

We always say 'It's a man's world'..and as such, it gives women the daunting task of competing for the same opportunities, respect, and wages, that men have.

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2. From a sexual stand-point, it symbolizes your relationship, and desire for your mate.
That he was so willing to go to the extremes he did, suggests that he cares for you deeply and is willing to forego embarrassment to help you.
You feeling embarrassed would suggest that you don't want to appear foolish to him if you were more aggressive.
Trying to hide the erection would suggest that you feel ashamed to show your aggression in the bedroom., or embarrassed to voice what you like, or do not like.
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Have you been feeling that you'd like to 'spice-up' your sexual relationship with your husband?
Maybe you'd like to be more dominent in the bedroom...?



I hope this gives you some help...Best wishes!!


As a side note.... I don't want to seem uncaring or cheeky, but your description (your choice of words) gave me a chuckle.
I could clearly 'see' what you were going through. And I felt as though I were there... I could feel how mortified you were.
If you aren't already, you should consider a career in writing.

LOL....Ya know?...I have wondered the same thing myself from time to time...although I have never dreamt I've grown that extra, all important, appendage!
I mean it HAS to be weird walking around all day with that 'thing' hangin' there. LOL
But men, being men, have such an advantage...they can pee wherever they want AND can do it standing, without having to drop their pants all the way past their knees, or dribbling down their leg. Not to mention, having to worry about a dirty toilet seat in a public restroom, and if they're so inclined, they can share a urinal.....hence, no line outside the restroom!

But it's perfectly natural to be curious about the genitals of the opposite sex. It means you comfortable with your own sexuality.
Rhetorical question...: Have you ever been the 'dominent' one in the bedroom?
If not, try it. Having a penis isn't about the 'having'....it's about the control. Try role reversal. Initiate sex first...try being more verbal, much like a man would be. Although you may not have the equipment to be the male, you can assert yourself as though you did!

Hope that helps! And yes, thankyou for the giggle!

Wow! What a dream. I'm not suprised you end up waking up relieved. I'm sure most of us have thought about having a penis at one time or another and probably had a dream about it, wheter we remeber it or not, but to have it turning into the dream you have - what a nightmare! I'm not sure about the penis envy thing Julia. I don't think Sandy is enjoying the dream so much that she is wishing it on herself. However Sandy, you seem to enjoy  the sexual side of it - despite being in public, you actually reach orgasm in your dream. Although I can imagine (and remember) the thrill when hiding in a public place and enjoying sexual encounters with hubby, you seem to allow yourself to climax fairly easily in your dream despite the onlooking public ridiculing you. You also seem to allow them to laugh at you whilst carrying your shopping with your erection showing through your skirt. The normal reaction would be to run and hide but you carry on regardless. Even being in public without knickers under your skirt is something most women would find embarrassing to say the least. I believe the dream is telling you that you are craving humiliation in some way. Maybe you are scared to consider this in your relationship with your husband (the fact he is masterful in your dream is significant) but you believe it might spice things up? It can work. Many years ago when I was still at university, I used to wear long button up skirts with those long cotton petticoats that showed the lacy hem, a bit like you describe in the dream.  On an evening out with  friends, my then boyfriend wedgied me (pulled my panties up ....) and accidentaly ripped them. I had to remove them and go without in full knowledge of the group. They found this so funny that when walking back, the pulled my skirt, unbuttoning it all the way then undid my belt and popped my skirt right off. They ran off with it and left me to walk home with my boyfriend wearing just my frilly petticoat!!! It was one  of the most humiliating experiences of my life but when we got home, it led to some of the best sex I have ever had. (I sometimes still wear one in bed for this purpose).
Think about it.
Love Annie