I am a 22 yr. old single female.

Over the past year and a half I have liked and cared for a man. Unfortunately, last month when I asked him out he said "Probably not. I don't think my girlfriend would like it too much." I asked him infront of his co-workers who are like his family. He was also multitasking as he was making a bill for his client. After the rejection I dreamnt that we went to the movies just as friends and as I tried to kiss him he pulled away. Also, that night I dreamnt that he and I were eating dinner with my grandfather (who is deceased). That week a phsychic told me to move on and that we were just friends. However, this week I wrote him a letter but haven't sent it to him. It gave me a lot of closure but last night I had a dream about him. In the dream we were at a house and I was trying to ignore him and he said "I want to talk to you." It was inside a hallway ,where I was placing a book on a nighstand ,of an upstairs of a home. That is when I awoke. I know that he is unmotivated, scared of change, and has bad communication skills. When were were friends I called him out on that and he agreed. What does this dream mean? Should I talk to the man and/or send him the letter?

Can someone please help?