I keep having dreams about my ex who is also the father of my child.  He has been married now for 2 or 3 years.  He and I broke up about 5 years ago.  I can't figure out why I keep dreaming about him. The dreams are basically about me and him back together, or me and him together and his wife finding out about it.  There have been several dreams where we've had sex.

As stated, we broke up over 5 years ago and he is now married.  I knew our relationship wouldn't last because we weren't compatible.  I don't want him...like I could have him anyway.  But I'm puzzled as to why I keep dreaming about him.  I am single and not currently in a relationship.  I really haven't been in a relationship since we broke up but I have been on several dates.  But I do have a desire to be in a relationship, ultimately leading to marriage.

Can anyone help?