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lilithlefey
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« on: March 22, 2008, 12:52:01 AM »

to better under stand, i'm un-married, 21 and have a daughter.  lilith is my 1 yr old daughter, robert is my boyfriend of a month, jenni is my best friend, tony is her boyfriend, nugget is a 14 yr old neighbor boy that sometimes comes over to the house to hang out, nicole is my sister, and james is her boyfriend.

any thoughts on this dream would be so helpful to me.

i dreamt that i was with a girl verison of nugget and we went into the dykes trailor park to see about a party, well the party ended up being at my house with like over 100 bikers and everyone of them had a case of natural light.  well i told nugget that, that was way to many ppls at my house, and went inside to make a phone call, or talk to nicole and james, or something like that, and when i went back outside they was all gone. 

the scene changed and i was at a trailor sitting at the kitchen table with jenni talking to her, and tony and robert was in the living room talking to some chick, and lilith was playing on the floor, and the chick asked lilith something about her daddy and i told the chick that lilith didn’t have a daddy and robert got all pissed and told the chick that he was her fucking daddy.  that pissed me off and i started tripping out on him about saying some shit like that, and he looked at the chick and told her that he wasn’t lilith’s daddy by blood or even paper work but he was the closest thing to a daddy that she has, and that he was thinking about adopting her.  when i heard that i looked at him and asked him "shouldn’t that be something that you and i talk about, not ya’ll" and he wanted to get pissy with me and tell me that we would talk about it later. 

well then the scene changed again and i was at tonys, but the kitchen was bigger, and tony was passed the out on the couch and there was no waking him up.  well i seen a spider close to me, and i started to freak out and tried to get jenni to kill it, well she was about to when this little girl who was maybe 8 or 9, she ran up and killed it, but instead of throwing it outside like i told her too, she was trying to put the spider on me, and i was freaken out and i told the old ppls that brought her (the was well past their 60's), that if they didn’t get her the fuck away from me, then i was going to knock her the fuck out, that i didn’t care that she was only 8 i dont play when it comes to spiders.  well she got rid of it, but then everyone else was looking for spiders to put on me.  well one guy found one on this lite thing that was over tonys head, and it was a huge spider and weird looking like all bones no fur or hair or whatever it is spiders is covered with.   well the guy started playing with it, but wouldn’t kill it well then he picked it up and started walking close to me, so i got up and went into the kitchen, and he followed and sat down 2 chairs from where i was standing in the cornor.  i told him that if he touched me that that spider i would kill him.  he started laughing and acting like he was going to put it on me, so i flipped the chair that he was in and jumped over the chair to go back into the living room with jenni well he triped me and grabbed my legs, and was trying his hardest to put the spider on me, so i kicked him in his face and got free, went into the living room, where there was a stack of white ice chest like boxes stacked to the roof.  i moved one of the boxes, sat down on the rest and just started ballin my eyes out.  i was so pissed and just so scared.  i woke up.
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« Reply #1 on: March 22, 2008, 12:16:21 PM »

Having your friends, relatives and neighbors in your dream is a usual dream aspect. They are the people you see, and interact with daily....so it's normal to include them in your dream.

party - feeling the need for happiness, or for a reason to celebrate. Alternately, it may suggest you feel the need for more structure within your life, or the need to take responsibility more seriously.

bikers - suggests the unpredictability, and uncertainty you feel in your life.

Lots of beer - May symbolize unclear thinking or attitudes. You may be feeling that you and your friends indulge too much in social life and not enough in other aspects of your life.

too many people - that you realize there are too many people there suggests your need for more order and less chaos in your life.

trailer - any place where you live is a 'home' and represents the 'self'.

kitchen - being the 'heart' of the home, also represents the core of one's self. Represents creativity, the role of Mother, stong emotions and desires, pride in the ability to create a home and contribute something valuable to the family.

unknown woman - represents an unknown side of yourself. A part of yourself you do not feel connected to, or a side of yourself you don't like.

issue of parenthood - suggests your fear of uncertainty, and strongs feelings of protection for your child.

anger - People who dream of being angry often have difficulty expressing the emotion constructively in waking life. Anger is a reaction to a perceived threat. Anger reflects our feeling that we are being denied what is ours by necessity, or by right.
Dreams that contain anger may often give insight into our waking relationships. Sometimes, you may find yourself dreaming of being angry at someone who never angers you in waking life. This may simply be an indication that they are not perfect, a sort of check that reminds you that they are human.

Drunk friend that wouldn't wake up - suggests that you feel this person, or others like him, are of no help to you in your waking life.

spider - The spider is a symbol of poisonous and sinful desires, on one hand, and an emblem of skillful and creative attitudes, on the other hand. Sometimes a spider represents female seduction which "devours" of the male, in which case, you should reconsider your behavior, and actions, as they may look patronizing, overprotective, or demanding.
The deformed spider suggests you feel the more negative side of the above symbolism. Could represent a negative attitude toward yourself or others...or could be representative of a destructive lifestyle.

old people - the elderly usually always symbolize wisdom, patience, and experience. Having them in a dream usually suggests that you want, or need, advice on a particular issue.

unknown child - The child in your dream could represent your inner self, or the child within. The dream could be based on childhood memories, and it may carry a specific message or bring up long-buried issues. Occasionally, the child in your dreams may be pointing to your own childish ways.

others wanting to scare you - suggests you feel tormented in your waking life, like others are 'out to get you'. Also suggests that you feel others around you don't understand you, take you seriously, or care about your feelings.

being chased - sometimes represents current tensions and issues, usually showing the level of stress you have at the moment, and is a signal to take control over the worries and resolve issues with a clear head.
What it usually symbolizes is that you're running away from your problems, or you might be trying to avoid something or someone. What that problem is depends on who is chasing you. It may be a problem at work, or something about yourself, or others, that you know is destructive. It might involve a fear from within, such as an unhealthy relationship or unhealthy behavior.

kicked him(violence) - Often these dreams deal with repressed anger. While wanting to become physically aggressive toward others is a common desire, it should never be acted on in waking life. But, the dream tries to release the anger for you. If you have recurring dreams of this nature, you may want to consider a mediated session with the object of your anger; or re-arrange your circumstances.

white boxes stacked - the boxes stacked as they were, represents an obstacle you feel you have in your waking life.
 White in a dream might possibly be a reminder to resolve special situations and problems. White is feminine, symbolizing virginity, but also emotional coldness and immaturity. White also represents completeness, idealism, purity, innocence, elegance and openness.

sat down and cried - suggests you feel vulnerable, and stuck in a hopeless situation.
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Are you wanting a change of lifestyle?
Do you feel that things are starting to get out of hand?
Is the issue of your daughters' paternity a 'touchy' subject?
Do you feel stranded, or alone, in your current situation?
Have you been worried over the well-being of your daughter?
Are you wanting more stability for your daughter and yourself?

I hope this gives you some insight. Good Luck!
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« Reply #2 on: March 22, 2008, 10:49:15 PM »

oh wow!!! thanks for all that.  some of it i could see where it fits in to my everyday life.  others thou i dont really see as a problem, but then again my body has been known to be stressed to the max, and nothing would really be bothering me that i knew of....but my dreams would tell me other wise.  i guess with that dream what really stood out was the party/bikers...and the beer, i would have never remembered what kind they was drinking other wise, since i hate beer and never drink it.  the talk about my boyfriend adopting my daughter, and then the spiders and the little girl and the boxes and crying.  those was the things that really just stood out at me, and i couldn't get them off my mind.

i'm glad you was able to provide this info for me, having a better idea of what my dream could have meant, will help me to better understand what area's of my waking life is bothering me and what i need to fix.
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« Reply #3 on: March 23, 2008, 09:22:49 AM »

I'm happy I could help..Best wishes, and sweet dreams!
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