this contains homosexual content so if you do not feel comfortable with that please do not tell me so and just move along those of you who are fine with it i would appreciate help.


Okay so I like both men and women (i lean more towards women) but there is this one guy, we have been friends since the 3rd grade and we have gotten to be really good friends. I am kinda in love with him (i think) but he is completely straight. No one knows i have any feelings for men because my family and friends would freak (thats why i never use my real name when asking questions, haha) but....

Every now and again I will have this reoccuring dream where we are at his house and we are in his room and i, out of no where, kiss him and he backs off a little but i manage to get him to relax and talk him into having sex with me but everytime we go to actually do something we are interupted but his parents then we try to do it again and again are interupted and this happens until i finally wake up.

can anyone help me with this?

A brief word about alternate lifestyles...

Living an alternate lifestyle doesn't have anything to do about how you dream. You are a human being...period.
You have hopes, and dreams...likes, and dislikes, like any other human being. I honestly think that people who choose to live an alternate lifestyle are more open minded, and more capable of expressing their emotions.
(Preferential note: I HATE the word homosexual....to me, it's as derogatory as the word nigger. It detracts from a person's own individuality. I know it's the proper teminology....but still....it sounds bad to me. To segregate people into categories with a 'title' because of the race, religion, or sexual preference is biased, demeaning, and outright cruel.)

That, being said....on to your dream:

Because you are being interupted in your dream, I think you're feeling frustrated that you feel you cannot express your feelings for your friend. On one hand, you'd like to tell him, just to get it out in the open....but on the other, you're afraid if you do, you might lose him as a friend.

Like I've said before, an affair of the heart is a tricky business. Only you can decide what is best for you.

Best of luck!