This has been happening now for about 6 months, and it's always a virgin airline aircraft.  I don;t ever feel that I amm on this aircraft but I witness it,  What does this mean??  as I find it very disturbing[/color][/b]

No haven't set myself any goals really and my kids are only 6 and 6 months.  I'm going on holiday soon which might be something to do with it but this dream is constant and when i am out walking the dog we are not far from the airport and see the planes taking off and landing i somehow think the are going to come down in the large field behind me!

Since the dreams seem to have started when the youngest child was born, I wonder if they are connected somehow to the life of this new youngster.   Something is just getting started, only to crash to the ground.

You say that you live near an airport and see airplanes taking off and landing everyday.  So the dream is using a symbol from your normal daily life to try and express something to you.

Perhaps the dream is expressing the normal fears and concerns that a parent has for a new helpless baby.  Maybe if you admit to yourself that you have these fears, and address them head-on, instead of trying to ignore them, the dreams will stop.

Or, perhaps, you are picking up on the emotions of your child.  This idea is  a little more far-fetched, so if it doesn't seem right, you don't have to believe it.  But many parents do not realize the immense need that babies have for physical touch.  So many babies lie in cradles/seats all day, isolated from the constant human physical touch that is essential to their emotional development.  (Our not-too-distant ancestors strapped their babies on their backs so they were touching them all day.  For good reason.)  Some people seem to be more emotionally sensitive/needy than others.  Perhaps your dream is latching on to the emotional distress that your new baby is feeling, from not being held enough.  Again, this is just an idea, and I don't even know you or anything about your life, aside from what you wrote on this post.  Don't be offended, please, since parenting philosophies are quite controversial, and I'm going out on a limb on this second interpretation.

Good luck!