I need some help with interpreting a reaccuring dream i've been having for the past 9 months. Me and my boyfriend broke up on our 4 year anniversary because he's not sure he can marry his first serious girlfriend, he doesn't want to regret anything or feel like he missed out on something. That was October of 2008. We hang out almost every weekend. He calls and texts me all the time. We have both had no interest in finding someone new, which doesn't make sense for his reasoning of breaking up. I've tried not calling or texting him, but he'll go maybe 3 days and text me about something, or stop by my apartment.

the dream:

 I start out driving my car and end up at his grandmother's house wanting to talk to someone about what's going on between me and him. To find some sort of reasoning to why he broke up with me, but is always in contact and always seeing me and not moving on. I confide in her and sit there and pour my heart out to her and ask for advice, thinking she may know something. Her son, my ex's father, also broke up with his now wife for one year and they dated other people, then decided they couldn't be without each other and are now married with 2 kids. She always tells me she can see how much he loves me and how much he cares for me. She tells me she can see and understands my feelings for him and tells me that everything will be okay. That he's going to come back and realize he can't and doesn't want to be without me. She says it'll come to him, she knows it. and she sits there and repeats herself just saying that he'll be back, it won't be long before he comes back, don't worry. I leave her house crying, relived, worried, etc.


I've had this dream 3 or 4 times a month for the past 8 1/2 months, and i have a dream interpretation book but can't seem to figure it out. someone please help! it's greatly appreciated