Hi Crystal Ann!

You are in a position to receive.  You have a choice in your life regarding the info/knowledge/skills you wish to absorb & also the types of relationships you want to establish. You are ignoring your secret longing for guidance in romantic issues...you do want a compatible mate.

You are seeking the discipline you need to accomplish new spiritual, physical & financial standards. You also want to become more refined & to feel at ease & competent in any social setting & in your work environment.  This is an extremely uncomfortable stage for you.  You are hesitant & doubtful as you cautiously move through unfamiliar areas of your subconscious self to understand, accept & begin to nourish all of your cravings.

It is essential that you become more emphatic about defining who you are.  You also feel you are losing your spark & are becoming less attractive.  Once you admit to yourself what you don't want to acknowledge you will be open to embrace the supportive power you need for future levels of achievement.

Crystal Ann,

Your physical appearance is one part of who you are.  You need to focus on every area of your self to develop into a well grounded individual.  The phrase "less attractive" does not only apply to your face or body (outer self). Your emotional & mental projections are also seen by other viewers & are just two other factors of attraction (how you feel about yourself is what others perceive).

Acknowledge & work on improving your:
--confidence
--mind
--financial future
--social interactions
--communication skills
...practice being comfortable with you inner self, too & cease relying on reassurance, love & acceptance from other people & other sources.  When you truly adore who you are you will draw positive energy to you.