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« on: March 12, 2008, 05:34:12 PM »

So I have 2 dreams below that I would love and very much appreciate to have interpreted because I keep having similar dreams almost EVERY night. Thank you all who reply in advance!

Dream #1
It seems like my husband and I got separated after I had our baby (We're 5 months pregnant now); yhe left me for someone else who was MUCH younger than me. I think we still got along though because I would still come by and we would go out as a group of 3. The 3 of us returned to his home from a bar or club or something (the house he had in my dream was my childhood house, the same house that he visited and stayed with me in for a month from New York when we were newly together) and we were going to go to bed in all the one room (in my dream it was my brothers old room). I was really tired so I layed on floor where I was going to sleep, and for some reason he looked at his new girlfriend on their bed and said, “I don’t want to sleep here, I’m just going to sleep in the living room.” I felt bad thinking he was uncomfortable with me in the same room with them, so a few minutes after he left I went after him to tell him that he could sleep with his girlfriend, and I would sleep in the living room. But then he said no and asked that I lay next to him because he wanted to talk with me. I sat next to where he lay, and he began telling me how much he really didn’t like/love his new girlfriend…how she’s all wrong and so immature for him…how all he could think about is me and what a big mistake it was that he cheated and left me the way he did…and how the only person he knows he will ever want to be with is me because no one else can ever compare. He then came closer to me and started to kiss me so passionately - (which in my real mind while I was asleep, I enjoyed very much because I could feel it and it felt like the way we used to make out in the first year of our relationship!) I think we made love after that……then the dream ended. I woke up sad and partially crying and have been thinking about it and the way it made me feel ever since.

Dream #2:
This dream came after I went back to sleep from the above dream. I don’t know how to explain my point of view in this one, but what happened is that my husband's phone really rang early this morning when he was taking a shower. I heard it in my sleep, and I guess had a dream about who it was. So in my dream I looked to see who it was. He was able to receive myspace messages and bulletin posting on his cell phone…and it was a response to a reply he gave to a bulletin that was posted. I opened it and the original bulletin said something like, “Name who it all started with and who was your best.” His reply was, “It all started with Shante (I don't know where this name came from), and she was THE BEST!” Then the response from that person who posted the original blog that made his phone go off said, “Really? What did she do?” Then somehow my husband had a video on his phone sent as a reply of him and I guess whoever Shante is/was together doing all these nasty things…it looked just like a porn. I just felt really hurt and helpless again…..then the dream ended.
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« Reply #1 on: March 12, 2008, 06:36:55 PM »

This is an anxiety dream.,, and perfectly normal for an expectant Mother.
Being pregnant, we women sometimes feel fat, and undesirable. Especially now, at 5 months along...your body is just becoming visably pregnant, and your hormones are going wild, possibly causing rashes and skin blemishes. You know you're pregnant, but until you can actually feel that baby bouncing around in there, you just feel 'fat' and decidedly un-sexy.
Shante is an exotic name, and brings up images of a lovely, graceful, exotic, and model-like woman. The exact opposite of how you sometimes feel. You being insecure at this stage caused your subconscious to create that name.

Unless your hubby has given you reasons to think he's fooling around....just relax, and know that everything's going as it should be. Explain your fears to your husband. Communication is the key. Sometimes it's nice to hear that we're pretty, especially when we're pregnant.
If you can, try to take a 'me' day once a week. Take a relaxing oatmeal bath (if allowed by the dr. and don't use bubblebath soap, as it can cause a yeast infection) give yourself a facial, do your hair and make-up, and go for a walk or a trip window shopping. Besides being good exercise, it'll lift your spirits, and relieve some of your anxiety.
Just a simple day for yourself to feel pretty, and pampered. You are accomplishing one of the true miracles of nature...creating life.

Congrats on the new little human you're carrying, to you and your hubby!
Hugs n' Blessings!
J
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