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NotSure
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« on: August 19, 2008, 10:55:41 AM »

I have had numerous dreams about my ex-bf.  We broke up in March, but remained on speaking terms until June.  I had a dream the weekend before I discontinued contact with him that he had met someone else.  Come to find out, the next weekend that's exactly what had happened.

Now I've had two dreams in which my sister is involved.  She is friends with my ex, but supposedly doesn't talk to  him much.  A little background on her... my now ex-hubby cheated on me with her years ago.  And I know she had a strong attraction to my ex-bf (the one I dream about). 

In the first dream, my ex-bf and sister get married.  However, he is not happy marrying her and ends up spending most of the evening talking with me and wanting to get an immediate divorce.

The 2nd dream, the two of them seem to be in contact.  IM'ing a lot and just getting too close and I end up feeling very angry.  I even woke up mad at her.  (And we live in different states)

I've also had a dream where I have spoken to him and he says he hasn't been doing much, just hanging out at home with his daughter.  Another dream he says he's dated some but isn't seeing anyone seriously.

For some reason, I do not dream about him with this new girl he supposedly has.  To be honest, I don't even know the nature of the relationship ... if there is one.  My sister keeps telling me she thinks they are just good friends, but that she doesn't know for sure.  I am still hurting over the loss of this man and how much he changed within a few months.  I'm sure I dream about him because he is on my mind constantly. But I have such vivid dreams.  Why?  I honestly have never had so many dreams about one particular man.  It's very confusing.
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« Reply #1 on: August 19, 2008, 11:13:17 AM »

Notsure? 

I think you've already answered your question.  You stated "I am still hurting over the loss of this man and how much he changed within a few months.  I'm sure I dream about him because he is on my mind constantly."

Perhaps you folks left things unresolved as the ending.  Maybe you could call and try to reach a resolution to the ending so that you can end your mental suffering.  I can relate to your pain.
Perhaps by talking with him, or by resolving these feelings within yourself and moving on to Better things and loves.   
For whatever it's worth, I'll share something that helps me get things straight in my head for certain issues:

"Change is just change. It isn't inherently good or bad. It's just different."

All the best,
Ziffmonger

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« Reply #2 on: August 19, 2008, 11:23:25 AM »

I guess I don't understand why I dream about him either being with my sister or being alone.  Like there is no other choice.
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