Dreaming of an ex boyfriend....

xoyankeeshortiox

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Dreaming of an ex boyfriend....

« on: January 13, 2009, 12:50:10 PM »

So the other night I dreamed about my ex boyfriend. In real life, we broke up last year, and recently we have become good friends, but I don't have any feelings for him any more though. From what I can remember in my dream, we were at my house and my ex boyfriend was sitting on my couch. I was standing with a couple of my friends and they were whispering to me that the night before me and my ex got back together, and I didn't seem to remember. I was shocked and I said 'I don't want to be with him and I don't like him like that.' And I would look over to my ex boyfriend and he would be smiling at me. My friends told me how much he still loves me, but I kept on saying 'no, I can't, I don't like him like that, what made me decide to get back together with him.' But I didn't want to hurt his feelings cause he seemed so happy.

I just find this dream really weird.. another thing I kind of feel might be sybolic is the fact that in my dream we were in my basement, which me and my ex were there together once before, which was one of the best nights I ever had with him while were together. I hope someone can have some input to help me try and interpret it. Shocked

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Linzi

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Re: Dreaming of an ex boyfriend....

« Reply #1 on: January 14, 2009, 04:10:40 PM »

Hi there,

This is interesting, I'm no expert when it comes to dream interpretation but I do try from time to time!

This dream is funny though, if it weren't for you stating you have no feelings left for your ex boyfriend I would say...you still have feelings for him! So here, I'm inclined to point out the opposite, that maybe he still has feelings for you and that subconsciously you are aware of this. Have you noticed your friends seem to be watching your every move and chatting about your "friendship" more than you feel necessary?! If you were once in love and are now able to be friends, perhaps there's still room for extra feelings besides those you have for other normal friends. Plus the time you've spent away from eachother might have been just what he needed to settle and realise how happy he was when you were together.

Look at this info on the "basement"

To dream that you are in a basement, symbolizes your unconscious mind and intuition. The appearance of the basement is an indication of your unconscious state of mind and level of satisfaction. It represents primal urges, animalistic desires and basic needs.

Maybe you're on the look out to be as happy as you felt that night, but be wary of your ex/friend, he might not be the one to help you with this. By the sounds of it you have probably moved on. If you can talk to him about this, you might be able to clear up any confusion and continue to be good friends

Lots of luck,

Linzi


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xoyankeeshortiox

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Re: Dreaming of an ex boyfriend....

« Reply #2 on: January 15, 2009, 12:04:03 PM »

Hi Linzi,

Thankyou so much for you input.

I feel like what you said was perfect. When you mentioned about if I feel my friends have been talking about me and my ex's friendship now. Yes, especially since we've been getting a long recently, they use to to ask me why we broke up and how we seemed so perfect. I even thought it was weird at first. Kinda like what you said about you thought I'd probably still have feelings for him.. But I assure you and everyone that that is not the case. I've moved on. haha

You also mentioned the "basement" aspect and uncounscious mind and desires. I feel that is very true recently. You said "Maybe you're on the look out to be as happy as you felt that night". I've been starting to think of how much I want a boyfriend, or the relationship with a guy like the one I had with my ex. I guess my dream just proves this. haha

I just want to thank you again!

- Dayna


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Linzi

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Re: Dreaming of an ex boyfriend....

« Reply #3 on: January 15, 2009, 04:19:13 PM »

Hi Dayna,

You're very welcome, thanks for getting back to me! I'm learning to read dreams and it's no easy so I'm glad I could help in this case.

Lots of luck to you, it would be a shame to lose your ex as a friend but it might be important to talk with him and clear things up, just in case he is wondering if you two still have a chance! Seems like you're pretty sure of what you would like from any future relationship, that's a great foundation to start from

Linzi


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