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« on: March 31, 2008, 10:53:23 PM »

The other night I had a dream that hasn't stopped bugging me since I had it. Its sort of worrying me, so I came here to see if anyone could help me.

My girlfriend goes to college in new jersey (i live in jersey as well) and we see each other just about all day every single day. We've been together for over a year and I had the strangest dream that i went to visit her at school and she told me she was pregnant, but with someone else's baby. She told me she had sex with a spanish man in his car several times, and although she made him wear a condom, she still became pregnant. She insisted that it was okay that she was pregnant with this man's child because he was wearing a condom. In the dream, I then proceeded to flip out on her and leave, but then realized I wasn't wearing shoes and there was about a foot of water outside where my car was parked. I walked up several flights of stairs to my shoes, but then got lost on the way back out and encountered several students. I didn't interact with them, really, but they were there all the same. Also, I remember at one point in the dream (but not sure when) that i saw the condoms on the floor somewhere.

Does this simply mean i'm worried that my girlfriend may be cheating on me? I don't really feel that way, but there really isn't any way to judge what your subconscious is truly feeling
I know this explanation is a bit crazy and out of order, but its the best i could do because it was such a strange and non-linear dream. If anyone could help me, it would be greatly appreciated. Let me know if you need any other details from the dream, but thats about everything for the most part.
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« Reply #1 on: April 01, 2008, 07:46:46 PM »

Girlfriend is pregnant with someone else's child - suggests an anxiety you have about your girlfriend being unfaithful.

No shoes - This may be a hint at something dealing with your foundation, or basic principles.  Also may suggest you feel unprepared for something in your waking life.

Water - represents your subconscious, your emotions, moods, your accumulated life experiences, and the flow of 'feeling' energy.

Stairs - Going up and down the stairs could mean several different things. It could represent changes in consciousness, movement from one inner plane to another, or a change in understanding. In a more material sense, it could represent a rise or fall in economic or social status and the general efforts that are required to accomplish life's small and large goals. Climbing may represent an achievement of your ambitions and a movement in a positive direction. Descending may symbolize your doubts or a period following hard work and achievement of a significant goal. Generally, dreaming of ascending a stairway connotes movement in a positive direction while descending is indicative of a down period or negative flow of ideas or actions.

Lost trying to exit - In a building that you are generally familiar with, it would suggest you're feeling confusion within your waking life.

Students(random people) - Feeling like you are 'just a face in the crowd'.

Condoms - the obvious connection to the preventive contraception and appear in the dreams that deal with the relationship concerns. In real life condoms are symbols of protection and prophylactics, but in dreams they symbolize psychological protection from all sorts of problems in relationships.
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Has your girlfriend given you any reason why you would suspect her of being unfaithful?
Do you have low self-esteem, and worry that you're 'not good enough' for her?
Have you two ever discussed the possibility of having children together?(Maybe she wants a child and you do not....or not just yet...)
Have you ever heard or seen another man 'looking' at your girlfriend, and you felt a little jealous?

Unless she has never given you reason to suspect her of infidelity, I would say that you're just worried about 'losing' her.

Hope this helps a little, good luck!
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