Sounds to me like a sort of guardian angel. I wonder why you feel like she is your daughter though... Why daughter... Why not something else? You seem to be attracted to her alright...

ok. i think i have to jump to the end part...

in my waking life....
after two and a half years of dreaming about her, my wife got pregnant. and with a stroke of luck, it's a girl! i said to my wife, let's name her Calista! that is the first time i told my wife about my dreams. she agreed that her name be Calista. then....

in my dream...
calista came to me, she said that she's our guardian angel, but her most important task is to take care of her siblings (baby brother and the others who will follow). But, if she came to us (that is born), one of us will pass away. if ever one of us will pass away, she'll never fulfill her duty. she loved us so much that she said she'll have to sacrifice herself, to save us both, me and my wife, and for her future siblings.

on the 26th week on her mother's womb...
calista died inside her mom's womb. the OB can't find any reason why that happened, the last time we had a check up, that was 3 days ago, she was very healthy. she was pulled out from her mom, her body is still intact, that is the first and the last time i saw her. she's so pretty! she's even smiling! the doctors examined her. and they can't see any reason why she died. no entanglement of the cord, the platelet count is normal, heart size, brain size, everything is normal... the doctors are totally surprised, but i'm not. both our parents are sad too, especially my mom, since she met cali in her dream. btw, my mom has a gift too, i got it from her.

in my dream the next day...
i saw cali again, now she's even more beautiful, her clothes are white. and she told me not to be sad, because even though we cannot see her, we can feel her love for us.

after a year in my waking life...
cali's baby brother is born! he's a very healthy baby boy. indeed cali guards him very well. there was one time that my baby boy fell from the bed, no one knew until he cried. he was just a few months old. we were so worried that he might hit his head or broke any bones...  i held my son, and i saw something like a white orb that came from under the bed and through the window... i know that's her.

after my son's first birthday, in my dream...
i saw cali in my dream the last time. i was in side a warehouse-like room, there were doors, ladders... and i was being chased by some ninja-like beings, who can cling and walk on walls. they were chasing me with their swords. i climbed up a ladder and saw a door. as i entered the door, i saw cali inside, she came out and fought those ninja-like beings. as soon as she beats them up, she came to me. she said to me, she can see us very happy with our son. though she is happy too, but not happy enough, she wants to be physically here with us. and so she said goodbye to me, that will be the last time i will see her. she chose to be 'born' in this world again, not with us, but through some other couple. and soon in about 20 years, we will meet her, in one way or another. the person who we will meet may not remember a thing, but we can feel that it is her.

now, we're hoping that we can meet her...