Cats usually mean intuition; in tune to. Legs usually are strength ...to see them cripples or wounded , usually is lack of balance, or independence in your life. house usually respresents our self's; our we are view, every room respresents emotions. Vacation is just that ; a get away to to a break or relax from the worries of this world in your waking life.   the color black could be the unknown, unconscious, danger, mystery, darkness, death, mourning, hate or malice. grey could be fear, fright, depression, ill health, ambivalence and confusion. You may feel emotionally distant or detached. 

Here's  what I feel, you might have people close to you that are very dependant on you. This is not causing a God balancing in your life as you want to help, but also want them  to depend on theirself. You could be a good person with a big heart, being taken advantage of. Whatever is happing is not allowing you clarity for yourself, your best interest. I always say we all have stories, and sometimes the people stories in our lives have to end, its not that your being hateful instead you are being true to yourself. Never deny you, and never let anyone burnden overtake you. just know things are reveled in our lives for a reason.  There is hope. I hope this help, Anyway peace and love - Dena