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Bruja
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« on: February 26, 2009, 06:28:26 PM »

 ???I had this dream last night that is really making me wonder what it is about. I was riding my bike down a road that ended up leading me to a part of town my very first boyfriend lived in. He was standing outside in front of the house he grew up in and I didn't want to go towards him but I did for some reason. He looked the same as I remembered him. He was wearing the same kind of clothes, same hair style everything, only he was older. We said hi and went inside and his family was all there. They were very nice to me including his mother. We all talked for a while, especially me and his sister, a blond. After a while I said I had to leave because it was going to rain and my ex boyfriend said he would drive me with my bike. He still had the same old truck he used to. I said alright and went to put my shoes on which was very strange.... I put on a beautiful and very expensive pair of silver open toed very high heals and then proceeded to put on a pair of very high healed thigh high shiny black boots. Also very expensive. My ex then asked me why i was putting on boots over my shoes and I didn't know how to answer or just didn't answer him, not sure. Then the dream was over.

Ok, so there are many weird things with this dream besides the shoes and boots. For one thing that ex was very abusive and I was terrified of him. I never would of went towards him. He also never had any family, he was an only child, and his mother and I never got along. She was also very mean. I have never dreamed about or even thought of him in probably 20 years. Why would I dream this and what could it possibly mean? It really has me stumped.

Thanks for any help in figuring this one out.
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« Reply #1 on: March 07, 2009, 12:37:29 AM »

A strange dream, indeed.  I don't understand it all, but I'll make a stab at some of these symbols.

Riding your bike-- you're taking a journey into yourself.

Meeting your old boyfriend, seeing his family, being all friendly-- I wonder if this means that you, after all these years, are now completely healed from the abuse of your past? You have made peace with it.  Or perhaps the dream is telling you that this is what you NEED to do, because you HAVEN'T made peace with your past?
The new sister probably symbolizes the relationship you had with both your ex and his mother, since she would be related to both of them if she really existed in waking life.  She is friendly too, this could mean that, again, you have made peace with this part of your life (or you need to do so).

THreatening to rain-- this could symbolize emotions, perhaps tears.  Not necessarily tears of sadness or despair. Maybe tears of joy, tears of healing, tears of relief, or tears of beauty.

Putting on new beautiful shoes might indicate that you have a new "walk" in life that you really enjoy. There are two pairs of them; this is probably a personal connotation.  Perhaps the two pairs of shoes represent two aspects of your life that are healthy, beautiful, protective, and valuable for you. 

Hope that helps somewhat!
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« Reply #2 on: March 07, 2009, 08:46:33 PM »

Thanks for that. I never thought of it as possibly being over the abuse but it is possible. Why else would I of dreamed of him after so many years, or a lifetime ago. It was a very weird dream indeed. Thanks again for your help.
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« Reply #3 on: March 09, 2009, 01:47:48 AM »

You are trying to do it over....
You have the chance to avoid him in your dream...you don't. Your mind is telling you that it is ok that you were involved with him. Do not worry about it. It is ok that you made that real choice in life.
You are replaying all the things you wish "could have" been.
His mother....what I see is a part of your mind wanting her on your side. Since he was abusive to you AND his mother didn't like you...well, that is a double whammy. It leaves you feeling as though his abuse was warrented. She didn't "like you either." YOur mind is clearing that problem out of the way so that you can rationally process the hurt and trauma you surely experieced from his abuse without having to worry about being the "one to blame."
The shoes....I think at some point, your mind wished to remind you what ennormous lengths you had to go to in ordinary situations to try to please him...and it still wasn't sucessful. Here you are putting on shoes that are expensive and the types that are clearly designed to arrouse and please men and he isn't getting it...and asks you what you are doing.
I also think your mind at this point was trying to tell you that you have done your best and enough is enough. Your putting shoes over shoes is the unneccessary ammount of time you have spent on thinking of this man. Your true self wants you to recognize that it is futile and worthless to fret anymore about him and that timme of your life. He was at fault...not you.
This is what it speaks to me
good luck
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